tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4623788776301964932.post8481622740337363488..comments2014-04-10T18:28:01.717-07:00Comments on Getting Older ... Getting Wiser?: Marriage 101studio pashnadahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12636961378714714848noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4623788776301964932.post-3428876681625023052011-07-07T18:53:33.970-07:002011-07-07T18:53:33.970-07:00Nancy, congratulations on 41 years! You are so ri...Nancy, congratulations on 41 years! You are so right - both people have to be in it completely. And I love that your husband commented too!!<br /><br />Aunt Sheri, that is a great idea - too often the words are said but little thought is given to what they really mean.studio pashnadahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12636961378714714848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4623788776301964932.post-89687865524589053882011-07-07T16:55:03.925-07:002011-07-07T16:55:03.925-07:00I got married in 1970 and I am still married to th...I got married in 1970 and I am still married to the same guy 41 years later. Our secret? Always try to put the other person 1st if you truly love them. Even in those very hard times. And there will be some hard times no doubt about it!<br />And that goes for both people - not just one of you. I always tell the kids don't marry them unless you love them with all your heart and they love you the very same way. I always tell them look somewhere else if it is only a one way street because it's not the real thing unless you both feel the same way!<br />My hubby says his secret is give the wife your pay check and take out the trash.Nancy Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10374425274874256736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4623788776301964932.post-17715481362803655922011-07-07T09:56:21.314-07:002011-07-07T09:56:21.314-07:00Are you willing to follow your wedding vows the re...Are you willing to follow your wedding vows the rest of your life? Look over them and study then, they are not just words on a piece of paper. They are the rules of marriage. When you say "I Do", you are agreeing to these rules for the rest of your life or the life of your spouse. You will be one person.Sherihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09911302743685001299noreply@blogger.com